You know that point when you don't mesh anymore? Nobody ever wants to come to that point, or actually aknowledge that it's there or even could exist... I automatically think people evolve and grow and change like I do, but sometimes they don't. Sometimes they stay just far enough away to hide their immobilization. And I'm talking about "thinking" here... shifting of thought. Sometimes no matter how much you love someone, they'll never get it or feel it the way you do. That's just the way it is, I guess, but it doesn't lessen the hurt when you find out the truth. ...When you think you know somebody, but you really don't. When you think someone is as grateful to have you in their life as you are of them. It's just SUPER hard to find that level of consciousness in others... that level of SIMPLY knowing & being fully aware of another without ego.



If you don't get what you want, you suffer; if you get what you don't want, you suffer; even when you get exactly what you want, you still suffer because you can't hold on to it forever. Your mind is your predicament. It wants to be free of change. Free of pain, free of the obligations of life and death. But change is a law, and no amount of pretending will alter that reality.

Dan Millman Quote



So why fight change?